Loving People Who Are Hard to Love: Transforming Your World by Learning to Love UnconditionallyThe secret to loving people who are hard to love is to love them anyway In John 13: 34, Jesus says, As I have loved you, so you must love one another (NIV). It sounds wonderful, loving everyone like Jesus loves us. But actually living this way is sometimes difficult and can even seem impossible. You probably know about this from personal experience. Maybe it's an unfriendly co worker, someone in your family, or an ex spouse. Whatever your situation